1. Bumbo Seat: Love it! We started to use it so that Sophie could sit on the table while we ate, or on the counter while I washed bottles. After that I used it in her baby pool. Now we use it for feeding her. We will get a highchair, just haven't decided on which one yet.
2. Graco Pack N Play: Some people use this in place of a bassinet, but we had a cradle that was given to us. However, Sophie gets to go to work with me (I'm a preschool director) and I put the pack n play in my office. One feature I love is the changing table part. Makes it quick and easy to do diaper changes. It also has a storage area to hold the diapers and other stuff. It has a built-in wipes storage but it doesn't keep the wipes moist.
3. Exersaucer: I have one at work and one at home. She likes them both, especially because she loves to be standing. they both have toys attached but she doesn't care much at them. She's still pretty small, so I bunch a big fluffy blanket around her for stability.
4. Jeep Walker: I know walkers are so taboo, but I feel like this one is pretty safe and we don't have any stairs to fall down. It is the same basic concept as the walker, except it stays in the kitchen (on tile, not carpet) and she can push herself backwards. She has also figured out how to beep the horn and play the "radio".
5. Einstein Musical Motion Jumper: We haven't used this much yet, but I'm sure we will. This is in her bedroom. We have an exersaucer in our bedroom, and the jeep in the kitchen. The swing is in the living room, and we have an infant seat/rocker in the computer room. I also have a bouncer in our bathroom for when I take a shower, but she doesn't like it much.
Here's some things that are overrated or at least not used much:
1. Swing: She will go in it sometimes, but she pretty much has to already be in a good mood. It definitely isn't something I can go to when she's fussy.
2. Bouncy seat: Same as the swing. I use both when I need a place to put her, but I could just as easily put her in her crib.
3. Bassinet/cradle: We had a beautiful wooden cradle my mom got my sister who handed it down to me. We used it in the living room for the first 2 and half months for naps during the day. Since I didn't nurse, having her in our room wasn't necessary. Plus my mom was with us for the first 5 weeks and helped with nighttime feedings. So from day 1, Sophie slept in her crib in her room every night. It also turned out that at 5 weeks she went from 2 night feeding to only one and at 8 weeks was sleeping through the night. I do use a monitor (sound only, but with the added motion sensor to "prevent" SIDS).
4. Diaper Genie: To be honest, we don't have one, but I asked around beforehand. Most people found them to be cumbersome and complicated to work. My sister has a newer version that has a step-lever for opening it. She seems to like that but our changing table unit has a cabinet for the trash and so the step part wouldn't have worked for us. Instead I just use a plastic trash can with a push-top lid. We don't put dirty diapers in it (walk those to the big trashcan). We have cats so I'm emptying litterboxes regularly anyway, so taking out the diaper trash was that big of a deal. I do keep an air freshener in the cabinet with the trashcan, and sometimes I buy those scented trash bags.
5. Wipes warmer: Again, not something we have, but I did think about getting one, especially when a friend said it was wonderful for her baby. Turns out Sophie doesn't really care about the cold. I also don't have a fancy bottle warmer. I use to warm up water in the microwave and then put the bottle in that...then I found out Sophie will take the bottle cold. She just doesn't care.
Things the jury (aka Sophie) is still out on:
1. Baby sling: I tried the peanut shell and the slingrider when Sophie was teeny tiny. I just couldn't see haw she could be comfortable. The sling rider was little better than the peanut shell, I felt like she had a little more room and wasn't completely smooshed. Since then, I use the peanut shell in the kangaroo position (Sophie facing tummy to tummy with her legs on either side). i don't have a lot of movement with that, but it works for me when I'm on the computer and at my desk at work. I also have front-pack carrier (like a Baby Bjorn, but different brand) that worked better at work. I can use it when I need to walk the halls and check on the classes.
2. Infant seat/rocker: I actually have 2 of these. My swing uses this type of thing, plus I have this one in the office. she seems to like the rocker better than the infant seat. the infant seat basically just has her laying back, too reclined for her taste. This one has the vibration option, which she seems to like most days. She has just started to notice the hanging toys, so she may like it more now.